Posts belonging to Category Education & Homeschool



Getting Crafty

Some of us are missing a craft gene, others are very pregnant and in need of a simple nativity craft.  I picked up this box at the local Catholic store for only $7.99.

The box is filled with plain ceramic nativity figurines in need of painting.  My children LOVED painting them and they then insisted that we make a manger scene (I should have anticipated this).

I wanted something requiring little work on my end.  I settled on a simple shoebox nativity.  We then made this–

I want to emphasize that it was VERY simple.  I cut the top of the box to flatten it, then folded it in half and taped it with scotch tap to the bottom part of the box to make a triangle shaped roof.  I had the children glue brown paper squares to the top and sides.  We gathered some grass and pine needles for the floor.  We then cut out and glittered a star that I secured with a paper clip.  They have been playing with it daily and the figurines have held up well in the hands of our energetic two year old, otherwise known around here as  “Claire the destroyer.”

 

 

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The giving heart of a child

Please forgive my long absence.  I took a temporary blog break in November, but thought I’d emerge from that break to share briefly about Advent, and the virtue of generosity.

At Christmas we celebrate God’s greatest gift to the world–Himself– and there is just something about preparing our hearts to receive the Christ Child at Christmas that inspires all of us to be more generous and mindful of others in need.  I want my children to be inspired as well.  I want them to thank God for all they have, and to think about the very real poverty of other children in this world.

Thankfully, opportunities to teach this lesson abound.  They hear the bells of the salvation army outside of the food store, and they see the tags on the giving tree in our church.  They ask questions and in response I hear my sometimes selfish children ask how they can help .  They drop coins into the St. Vincent DePaul poor box, they rummage through our pantry for canned goods, and as they smell their own dinners I again remind them to pray for those without.

While these are all wonderful ways to teach the virtue of generousity and giving to my children, last year we made the choice to forgo additional errands (like purchasing a toy for a needy child), in lieu of ordering a giving catalog and making a donation.  I’m sure there are many such organizations out there, but both Food for the Poor and Samaritan’s Purse are two wonderful organizations with beautiful picture giving catalogs.  They both serve families and children in very poverty stricken areas overseas.

The catalogs come in the mail in November (or you can go online) and the children LOVE to flip through the pages and pick out what they are buying to help other children in need.  One moment they are fighting over legos in our playroom, and the next they are looking with wide eyes at pictures of families in need of homes and children in need of food.  After turning only a few pages, it seems they give without even thinking, emptying their piggy banks and bringing tears to my eyes as they explain why they picked “feeding a hungry baby for a week” or a “fruit tree.”  I began this tradition to teach them about generousity, but instead, they they are teaching me.

And so today I am thanking Jesus for this beautiful season of giving.  I am thanking Him for my vocation, for the privilege of raising beautiful children who can teach their mama so many things.  And I am praying that their hearts don’t become hardened by this world.  I pray they remain generous, and that my own heart always remains open to those in need.

“Truly I say to you, unless you are converted and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven.”

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Body Language and Manners

The seven year old girl down the street cocks her hip out, extends her opposing leg, tilts her head, and plays with her fingernails as she and my daughter chat. Where in the world did she learn this MOST unbecoming teenage girl posture that communicates “I don’t respect myself, and I don’t give a d*** about you”?

My malleable six year old has definitely noticed, and I can tell she is contemplating whether she is drawn to that sass posture or whether she disapproves. So I am doing what any good mother would do and brainwashing her before she has time to decide for herself.

Over the last year, we have chosen one area of manners or behavior to focus on every season. The key is making it fun and putting it in proper context. Manners failures are not sins; we observe manners in order to show respect for the dignity of others and for ourselves.

My husband and I enjoy ourselves immensely when we are demonstrating for the kids what to do and what not to do, and the kids are in stitches. Watching adults exhibit poor manners is hilarious and makes a real impression. Once we have given demos and done some practice scenarios, all we have to do is gently remind them when a manners situation is imminent.

Over the summer, we focused on how to communicate with adults–stopping when addressed, standing still, speaking when spoken to, making eye contact, using Mr./Mrs. Last Name. This is the bare minimum, even for introverted children.

We then moved into a September refresher class on table manners, to prepare ourselves for several big events in October.

We are now onto body language, especially proper standing and sitting postures. I am having to treat the sassy girl posture delicately, to discuss what it communicates and to practice standing with legs together, back straight, arms by your side or gesturing. Standing upright communicates confidence, engagement, and respect. Another big area for us right now is sitting posture for girls, that is, sitting with legs together and backs straight–my girls wear skirts and dresses often, but even with pants, their legs should be relaxed but together. Way way too many girls and ladies sit spread-eagle these days. Is that supposed to be empowering? Fortunately our school reinforces what we are learning, especially with boys’ posture. When the middle school grammar teacher catches a boy slouching around with his hands in his pockets, she sews his pockets closed, and that nips it in the bud. My children think this is a riot and totally edgy.

Very few tenets of traditional etiquette are arbitrary, even down to the small details that only Emily Post had memorized–those details smooth social interactions and honor our own dignity and the dignity of others. The Southerner in me grieves the loss of some lovely norms of etiquette that are just too old-fashioned to survive. But at minimum, my husband and I want to exemplify basic norms of manners and etiquette, so that they come naturally to our children.  I hope my girls will sit and stand with refinement, my boys will hold doors and protect ladies, my children will greet adults properly, we’ll write thank you notes before we play… and we’ll continue laughing through our family manners sessions one season at a time.

 

 

 

 

 

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Halloween Candy Graphing | Building Cathedrals

 

 

 

I am reposting this so that anyone who is interested can be prepared.  I know that it is super dorky, but Candy Math has become a big part of our halloween tradition, and we really do visit lots of concepts which then help the children with math throughout the year.  Even with very young children, you can do a lot of math with one pack of m&ms!

 

 

Halloween Candy Graphing | Building Cathedrals.

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Fall Celebration

The feast...absolutely no prep work!

The boys and I have spent the last few weeks reading through our apple book basket and since, to my great dismay, there is no apple picking in our area, we decided to have our own apple harvest party. I bought a bunch of different kinds of apples we invited some grandparents and we had an apple tasting party. Simple, easy and sweet, and so much fun!

Different kinds of apples

 

Tallying the votes

Three year old refused to eat the apples

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Shower of Roses: Michaelmas

 

 

 

 

Shower of Roses: Michaelmas.

 

Okay, so we are a bit cupcaked out around here, but if you are up for cupcakes in your house, I LOVE this idea of devils food cupcakes which you stab with little cocktail swords in honor of St. Michael.  Love, Love, Love.  Please, somebody do it, and send me pictures!  I’m looking at you, Tex, if not this year, file it away for the future.

 

PS I have read this blog before, but I came upon this post through a facebook link from Catholic Heritage Curricula, which is my favorite source for homeschooling materials.

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Blindspots

My husband alerted me to this interesting article titled Homeschool Blindspots, by Reb Bradley. It has great thoughts on raising Christian kids whether or not you homeschool. It is so very easy to get caught in a trap of trying to fulfill our own plans at the expense of others and criticizing and controlling when your children are with you all day everyday!

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Dad’s Favorite Read Alouds

The other night, Mr. Red and I were talking about his opinions on children’s books.  We compiled this brief list of his favorites for your enjoyment.  The commentary is Mr. Red’s.  If you’re husband doesn’t normally like to read to the kids, maybe he’ll like these ….

Mr. Red’s favorites:

  • Fin McCoul by Tomie dePaola – Irish folklore, violence, and the defeat of the brutish Cucullin.  This book is best when read out loud with a thick Irish accent.  As the hero Fin aptly says of Cucullin, “I don’t have the heart to face a man who can make a young earthquake with his walk, and who carries around a flattened thunderbolt in his pocket just to prove his strength!”
  • Bear and Bunny Grow Tomatoes by Bruce Koscielniak- A telling portrayal of an industrious Bear, a slacker Bunny, and their respective tomato gardens.
  • The Little Dutch Boy – A classic story of perseverance.
  • Frog and Toad Series – These guys are hilarious.  Toad is so miserable.
  • Go Dog Go by P.D. Eastman – Fast-paced and action-packed.
  • Who’s got the Apple by Jan Loof – Creative story about an apple.
  • The Chick and the Duckling by Mirra Ginsburg – Provides an answer to the perennial childhood question: What is the difference between a chick and a duckling?
  • Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise Brown- I only included this because it’s really short.

Favorite Catholic books:

  • The Catholic Encyclopedia for Children
  • Most anything by Tomie DePaola (e.g., Miracles of Jesus, Book of Bible Stories, Patrick, Francis, Holy Twins, The Lady of Guadalupe, Clown of God, etc.)

While we’re at it, here are some of Mr. Red’s least favorites:

  • Cat in the Hat Comes Back – I’m not fond of Dr. Seuss books in general, and this is Dr. Seuss at his most annoying.  Another really annoying one is One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish.
  • Alexander and the Terrible Horrible No Good Very Bad Day
  • Chrysanthemum by Kevin Henkes

If you’re husband has some favorites (or least favorites) of his own, feel free to share in the comments.

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“Will There Be Faith?” – A Book Review

Dear Readers,

About a month ago, the Builders were asked to write a review of Thomas Groome’s latest book entitled “Will There Be Faith: A New Vision for Educating and Growing Disciples.” I decided that I was up to the task, and received a free copy of Groome’s book from the publisher. I have read the book and compiled my thoughts into a book review below – enjoy!

I have just finished reading Thomas Groome’s newest book, Will There Be Faith?, and my first reaction is that perhaps the last chapters of his book should have come first, with the remainder of the book following! Thomas Groome is a scholar, and clearly possesses a lot of knowledge about the Catholic faith. Throughout his book, he often quotes Scripture, the Catechism of the Catholic Church, the saints, particularly St. Thomas Aquinas and St. Augustine, and other religious scholars. It is quite clear the Professor Groome does not want to leave any stone unturned, or any subject unexplored, and thus he goes into great detail with each topic. As someone who appreciates scholarly pursuits, I very much appreciated Professor Groome’s in-depth discussions; as a mother and religious educator, I sometimes felt that his main ideas were lost amidst the myriad of Scriptural references, saint quotes, and academic tangents found throughout the book.

Professor Groome spends the first 259 pages of his book laying the foundation for his life to Faith to life approach to religious education, and the last 78 pages explaining this approach and giving practical suggestions for how parents, religious educators, and parishes can practically implement its ideas. In the first three chapters of his book, Professor Groome tries to answer many questions: First, what was Jesus’ teaching style, and how can we imitate Jesus in our efforts to teach (and learn) effectively? Second, who is doing all of this teaching and learning, and third, what faith are we trying to pass down and why?

In the fourth chapter, Groome begins to tackle the “how” of Christian educating by introducing the concept that he calls “liberating salvation,” stating that we must educate “for a faith that does justice” (pg 136). I found this section to be a bit out of place and confusing, and did not know whether Groome was referring to liberation theology or to something different. The latter part of chapter 4, however, was quite helpful; in it, Professor Groome focuses on just and unjust ways of teaching, cautioning teachers against robbing others of their ability to speak for themselves and discern their own decisions (pg 144).

Professor Groome has many interesting points about parish life and family life in chapters 5 and 6, and has clearly thought at great length about how churches and families can maximize their potential to be great learning environments for people of all ages.  He speaks beautifully about family life, at one point using the image of the Good Shepherd and saying that “the family should be like a good shepherd to all its members, carrying each according to need at varied times” (pg 210).  He goes on to say that “’favoring the poor’ needs to begin in our families. If not done at home, it is not likely to be done outside of it either” (pg 210). Groome makes some wonderful suggestions such as honoring the Sabbath as a family and creating family traditions and rituals that can strengthen the family’s faith life.

At this point, I must also mention that Professor Groome interjects certain statements throughout Will There Be Faith that caused me to take a step back and wonder what he was really trying to say. At various points, Groome refers to the Catholic Church’s “homophobia” and “sexism” as if they were realities, and not just people’s false perceptions. For example, in the Introduction Groome recounts a conversation with a young mother in which she conveys to Groome her reservations about bringing up her daughter in the Catholic faith, including “women priests, respect for gay people, birth control, clergy sex abuse, lack of lay voice, etc.” (pg 3). It is unclear whether Groome believes that these are actual problems within the Church (except for clergy sex abuse, which is a problem that the Church is dealing with), or whether he is merely stating that some people disagree with the Church’s teaching on these subjects. He says, “the stories I hear suggest that the difficulties posed [to faith on earth] are posed not only by the secular conditions of this postmodern age but, according to some perceptions at least, by the very Church itself” (pg 3). Does Groome mean that the Church’s teachings on these topics are problematic and that they should be changed? Another example comes when Groome states, with regards to gender roles and relations, that “the home, however, can stand for equality even when the society or church does not” (pg 217).  Later on the same page, Groome states that “gender-favoring language…perpetuates the favoring of men in church and society,” as if the Church really did favor men over women (pg 217). While I respect Professor Groome’s right to critically reflect on the teachings of the Church, as all the baptized are invited and encouraged to do, his remarks are distracting and leave the reader wondering what he really means to say. Is Groome suspicious of the Church, or is he simply “thinking out loud”?

At other points, Professor Groome speaks beautifully about the Catholic faith. In speaking about Catholic liturgy, Groome says, “the Mass is the summit and source of the life of the Church and parish!” (178), and quotes the Constitution on Sacred Liturgy several times. Continuing his points on the Mass, Groome states that the songs chosen for Sunday Mass should reflect “good theology” (pg 181), and that likewise, all of the prayers must “reflect good theology…[because] what we pray is really the measure of what we believe—and teach” (pg 183). Clearly, Professor Groome has a deep understanding of and reverence for the Mass, which is heartening.

Finally, beginning in Chapter 8, Professor Groome lays out the principles of his life to Faith to life approach to Christian education. He states that his approach to faith education, following Jesus’ approach on the Road to Emmaus (Luke 24), does as follows:

“1) Engages people’s interests and what is meaningful for them;

2) has them reflect upon their own lives in the world;

3) gives them persuasive and ready access to Christian faith as meaningful to their lives;

4) prompts them to correlate and integrate these two sources of truth and spiritual wisdom – life and Faith; and

5) invites them to decide for lived Christian faith. This is precisely what the life to Faith to life approach can achieve in a systemic way.” (pg 271)

Groome takes the topic of religious education so seriously because he wants to “help to bridge the gap that Christians maintain between their lives and their faith…The only way to do so is to pedagogically engage both “life” and “Faith” in order to [integrate] them [with] each other” (pg 283). Indeed, all of us, whether we are parents, friends,  or religious educators outside of the home, can appreciate this longing to help bring people closer to Faith and to help them bring Faith into their daily lives.  Professor Groome is to be commended for all of the hard work and effort that he has put into writing this book. Although his writing can be tangential at times, and although I would caution readers against some of his confusing language regarding the Church’s authority to teach the Truth as revealed to Her by the Holy Spirit, Thomas Groome presents a compelling vision for how we can effectively teach the Catholic faith.

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Back to Homeschooling

We started our school year two weeks ago, and I’ve been meaning to post about it, but for once I’ve been too busy homeschooling my kids to write about homeschooling!  I now have two children of official school age, so I had to be a bit more organized with my curriculum than in years past. We are also expecting another baby in January, which made me feel some extra pressure to be organized and ahead come the new year.

I spent a good deal of time in July ordering books and writing out monthly goals for my older two children.  I tried very hard to center our curriculum around the 3 R’s (reading, writing, and arithmetic).  We will do a large language arts block and a math lesson each day.  I then plan to teach extra subjects like history (2 times per week), religion (2 formal lessons per week but prayer every day), science (1 time per week), and geography (1 time per week), in a block at the end of our school morning.  These subjects are meant to be more “fun,” with lots of read alouds by mom, some crafts and experiments, and very few written assignments for the kids.  So far this schedule has worked very nicely, I’m loving the structure of our days, and overall our home is running smoothly!

In July, after the academic planning was complete, I spent some time at the local learning store purchasing some new and exciting learning toys for our Pre-school and Toddler Circuit.  New books for the big kids and new toys for the younger two made our first few days, and really our first two weeks, go very smoothly.  It is amazing how well kids take to new toys.  For this reason, I think it is so important to prevent toddlers from playing with Circuit toys outside of school time.  My pre-school age child begged me to open up just one of those new toys early.  I am so glad I resisted the temptation, because he is happily and quietly playing with those toys each morning.

Here are some shots of our first day–

My school age children hard at work.

My big girl Claire (22 months) pushing pipe cleaners through a small hole in the top of a container. Total cost of this activity $6.

Gus (age 3.5) putting pom poms into a container. Total cost of this activity $7.

Matching magnet letters to a strip.  Total cost - $19.99

Magnet letter matching, total cost $19.99

These are just a few of our Circuit activities. I also bought some Wikki Stix Letters (great idea!), some new puzzles, a number game, and of course all of our Circuit activities from last year. I’m having a bit of trouble sticking to 15-20 minute blocks of time, as Claire only lasts for 5-10 minutes at each activity (great for her age, she isn’t yet 2), and then Gus wants to switch too. One major goal of the Circuit is to increase discipline and attention span in younger children. I may have to speak with Gus about him having a “special timer” and he is only permitted to switch activities once he hears his timer. He is very capable of spending 15-20 minutes on each activity, but Claire’s desire for a new “toy” makes him insist on having one too.

We have had some bumps in the road, but overall it has been a good first two weeks! Now that I have some kinks in the schedule worked out, I plan to laminate schedule cards with daily assignments for my older two children. I’m glad I didn’t do this prior to the start of our school year (I used a white board instead), because practical considerations have necessitated some small changes in our daily order, and I now know what subjects can be done independently and what subjects cannot! It is amazing how much Gianna is now able to work independently, whereas only a few short months ago I had to continually hover and remind her to stay focused. This change has been a huge blessing, and has helped confirm that our decision to keep homeschooling for this school year was the right one.

I think that’s about all of my back to school ramblings.  Please share any of your back to homeschooling thoughts or tips in the comments.

**For more Circuit ideas, please click on this link for Pre-School and Toddler Circuit**

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